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Updated: Jan 25, 2019

*Originally posted September 25, 2015 on Fab . Fit . Me*


A little recap if you haven't already read my previous posts...

  • I went into labor in the wee hours of the night... and didn't even know it. But we all know I was in denial.

  • When I finally went in to Labor & Delivery I was already dilated 7 cm - which is totally freakin' awesome!

  • I labored all the way through to 10 cm without the help of the epidural

So now we have reached the end. It's time to push and we cannot wait to finally meet our little girl. In a matter of minutes, I'll be hearing her first cries and holding her in my arms. Tada... the end, right? Ha! Right...just so you know, having a pretty easy and textbook labor does not mean a damn thing. My nurse was not kidding when she said that pushing Baby P out would be the hardest part. Both mentally and physically.


After my midwife confirmed I was fully dilated, she "broke" my water (yup, it was still in tact up until then) and gave me the go to push with the next contraction. And oh-em-gee did it feel goooood to do so.


I pushed.


And pushed.


And puuuuushed.


...For the next 4 hours.


So much for not taking the epidural when they offered it to me. This is exactly what I was trying to avoid. The pain and exhaustion of having to push for-ev-errrr! But there I was... Totally exhausted. By this point in time, I had been up for over 24 hours... since I woke up from a good night's sleep Saturday morning. I barely got an hour of sleep time when I started feeling contractions... but that was interrupted sleep so that doesn't count! So yes... I felt defeated.


We tried every position known to man to help push Baby P out but nothing seemed to work. It turned out that my contractions weren't strong and long enough for me to effectively give 3-4 pushes. It would die down in the middle of like the 2nd push, so by the 3rd push, I was pretty much doing it all on my own.


After about an hour and still no baby, they decided to give me pitocin. To help strengthen my contractions. To help me push Baby P out. I didn't want to do it, but I wanted her out of me. So I agreed. Did it work? It strengthened my contractions no doubt. But not enough for me to push 3-4 times in one contraction. Even upping the dosage didn't help. My baby just did not want to come out.


We even played tug-o-war with a bedsheet. At first with my midwife. But after she realized how strong I was and that I almost pulled her down into me, the job was then given to my hubby. While it did seem like it worked in the beginning... Baby just would not budge.

Then when that didn't work, they showed me Baby P hoping to motivate me to push harder. They brought out a huge mirror so I could see her head...especially while I pushed. In all honesty, while it was amazing to see her head that close...it was kinda weird to be looking at it trying to come out of me.


I was tired. And delirious. I remember telling my hubby that I couldn't do it anymore. That they needed to cut me open. But he wouldn't let me give up.


I was so tired that there were some contractions where I didn't even try to push. I needed rest. I know I should have continued to push but I just couldn't. By about 4:30-ish my midwife came in and threatened me with a c-section. And you have no idea how ready I was to just scream "yes! Cut me open!" My husband stepped in and firmly told me to push our baby out. Wait. No. He yelled at me to push her out. We both did not want surgery unless it was our only option. And there was no emergency or legit reason to have a c-section.


For the next 30 minutes I pushed. And just when I thought "great, they're gonna take me in and cut me open and I'm gonna hate myself for letting them," every single nurse on duty came into my room. One after the other. I wanna say there were at least 10 of them in there. One nurse, with a thick Russian accent, came to my bedside and yelled at me like a drill sergeant. She was scary. And I had no choice but to listen. She yelled to push even when I couldn't. She ordered my husband and cousin (who had shown up to help coach sometime before I was fully dilated) to hold my legs. I'm not flexible at all, but at that moment, I had to be.


The rest of it was kinda surreal. I heard the voices of other nurses coaxing me to push...to not make a sound...and to channel all that energy into pushing. I saw my midwife put on her gloves and surgical gown and pull up a stool down there. And when I asked "what are you doing?!" mid-push she said "I'm delivering this baby, what do u think I'm doing?" With all of that going on... Drill sergeant lady yelling at me, my midwife doing God knows what down there with my lady parts, and all the nurses coaching and cheering me on, I managed to push Baby P's head out. Ask me if that hurt and I couldn't tell you. I know I had an episiotomy done. Didn't feel that at all. I do remember feeling the rest of her slide out of me when I had to push again. And before I knew it, she was placed on top of my chest immediately and my husband was cutting the umbilical cord.


And I was in tears. Mostly tears of joy. But a huge chunk of it were tears of relief. I looked down at my baby and just could not believe she was finally here.


It was love at first sight


Time ceased to exist once she arrived. Hubby and I were so busy swooning over her that I didn't even notice the midwife "working" on me down there. Didn't mind the discomfort of her pushing on my uterus to get the rest of the junk out along with the placenta. I was busy admiring our creation and enjoying the skin-to-skin bonding time with my daughter. She was absolutely gorgeous. And everything - The pregnancy, the labor, the pain, all of it... Was sooo worth it. She was worth it. And after hearing stories from all my mama friends, it felt amazing to finally understand and experience it for myself.


After both Baby P and I were cleaned up, and as we waited to be transferred to our room, family was finally allowed in to meet our little princess.

Here's Ella Juliet with her Grandpa David



With Auntie Viviana and Uncle Darrell


...with her Auntie Virginia



And her Uncle Diego



While everyone visited with the newest addition to our growing family, I managed to scarf down some food.



With the exception of a glazed donut I had in the morning before I made it to the hospital, I hadn't eaten since dinner the night before. I was famished! And completely drained. I didn't know it right away, but apparently I had lost a lot of blood. When the nurses helped me up to go to the restroom (they make you pee right away for those that don't already know), I almost passed out. It felt silly to me that I had to have all this help getting to the restroom to pee and change into some fresh and clean clothes. My mental state of mind at that moment: I just pushed out a baby! I can do anything!!!! Yeah well, almost passing out was my body's way of saying "slow down!" Thank goodness for awesome nurses!


So there ya have it! Did my best to include every last detail without dragging the story on and on. The event itself was exciting but I don't want to bore you with having to read it. I could have included pics of the placenta to add a bit of umph to this post but I know some of ya don't wanna see that stuff. And I wouldn't want to scare those of you who haven't had children yet or who just can't stomach the sight of blood. But it was pretty cool to look at!

Anyway, just a current update of where Baby P and I are today. Today she is 12 weeks old, almost 13. And that means I'm 12 weeks postpartum. We are happy and healthy as can be. It's been a major adjustment having a baby in our lives but we love her to pieces and wouldn't have it any other way.


As far as my fit blog is concerned... I want to try and blog more when I can. I started working out this week. In my garage. Starting off slow and just working my way back to what I was doing prior to getting pregnant. Got a few pounds of baby weight left to shed but I'm not worried. It will happen. I'm just taking advantage of this special time with my little one before I go back to work in November - something I'm not looking forward to. But that's a whole different story.


I just want to thank you all for reading my blog posts and following along as I went through this entire experience. It's been great and amazing and I am looking forward to watching this baby of mine grow.


Until the next blog post...

Much love and aloha,

The Peedens



*Originally posted July 14, 2015 on Fab . Fit . Me*


Sorry for being MIA!!! A lot has been going on since my last blog post update. Have been trying to juggle so many things all at once and, of course, my blog fell right down to the bottom of my "to do" list.


So this one is gonna be short and sweet! Why? Because I didn't want to go long without posting something and letting you all know that I haven't jumped off the wagon. At least not on purpose anyway.

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his is my reason for not posting my 38, 39, and 40 week prego updates...



Her name is Ella Juliet. And she decided to make her debut 11 days earlier than expected! Miss Ella was born on June 28th, just after 5pm. She has been keeping the hubby and I pretty occupied the past couple of weeks. Not that I'm complaining or anything. But she sure takes up a lot of our time. Like a lot.


And we just love her to pieces. It's crazy how quickly your life changes once you bring a child into this world... It's absolutely the best feeling ever.


I hope to blog more once I'm able to establish a routine of some sort... And don't worry, a detailed account of how it all went down (and by "it" I mean "Labor Day") will be posted soon, I promise.


*Originally posted May 15, 2015 on Fab . Fit . Me*


Previous Pregnancy Updates:

Which brings us to the completion of my 31 weeks of pregnancy :) The time is just whizzing by and I'm just hanging in there! I'm nervous and anxious to meet my little one... enjoying the pregnancy and putting up with the annoyances of being uncomfortable in this last trimester. Everyone said I'll be wanting this baby out as I get closer to my due date, that by the time I have to deliver Baby P, I won't be thinking about the pain of labor and all the scary stuff that comes with it.

Anyway, here I am at 31 weeks! It seems the belly has grown quite a bit since my last update pic...





...And that belly will just get bigger and bigger as it gets closer to my due date.


What Is Baby P Up To This Week?

  • Baby P is about the size of a coconut, weighs approximately 3.3 lbs and measures over 16 inches long...and is heading into a growth spurt (Um, I think she already did!)

  • She can turn her head from side to side, and her arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath the skin.

  • Her kicks and somersaults may be keeping me up all night - but that just means Baby P is active and healthy!

  • Baby's brain connections are developing, too! She is now processing information, tracking light, and perceiving signals from all 5 sense.

  • She's also putting in longer stretches of sleep - with noticeable patterns of wakefulness and rest.


What's Been Happening With Me This Week?


Weight Gained: So I had my doctor appointment at the very end of the 31 week mark. According to their scale, I've gained about 4 lbs since my last visit. So we're lookin' at 26 lbs total gained so far. And I'm right on track! Yay!

Workouts: I have failed miserably at this once again. No strength training. At. All. But, lots of and lots of walking still. At work. Life of a retail manager means busy, busy, busy. I'm hoping to see if I can get some strength training in from now till Baby P arrives to help with endurance since I will need it for labor and delivery!

Symptoms:

  • lower back pain (still)

  • extreme exhaustion

  • I get totally winded walking short distances and have to stop to catch my breath. Even walking and talking takes a lot out of me.

  • Baby P continues to hang out in my right rib and it gets pretty uncomfortable when driving home from work

  • Frequent trips to the potty day and night

  • Feeling hungry all the time but unable to eat my normal portions of food because duh, there is no room in this belly

Food Aversions: None. Perhaps that phase of pregnancy is over. I dunno. We'll see.

Food Cravings: Any and everything coffee and chocolate! Haha. Okay so a couple of days last week, we had some chilly temps roll through SoCal and I craved some pho. Just soup in general. Only thing is, I couldn't have any. By choice. Soup would just make me feel full and miserable. So that kinda sucked. But I got over it real quick when the temperatures got hot again.

Sleep: Surprisingly enough... pretty comfortable sleep. Not enough sleep though. And that's because I don't go to bed early enough. So I'm averaging 6 hours of sleep a night during the weeks. And even with the frequent bathroom trips, I'm still able to go right back to sleep and just knock out till the next potty trip or when i have to get up for work. So yeah... no complaints here.

Any Baby/Pregnancy Related Purchases? No, but that could all change soon coz I'm itchin' to buy some clothes for Baby P. I've been seeing some cute clothes....

Stretch Marks? Thankfully enough, nada! Since I've stopped using cocoa butter, I've just been using my regular lotion and then after taking my shower at night, I'd rub my belly with Extra Virgin Olive Oil to keep my skin moist and prevent dry skin. The only spots that itch, if ever, is my belly button. And whenever that happens, i just rub some lotion on the area and it kinda helps.

Miss Anything? I miss my normal unpregnant body. Don't get me wrong... that doesn't mean I don't like being pregnant! I know some of you will take that comment in a negative way. But the idea of having limitations and restrictions, especially at work... where I'm used to being Superwoman... it's kinda hard to deal with. I love being pregnant with Baby P. But I really do miss being able to just walk up the stairs without feeling like I'm going to pass out. And I am pretty sure once Baby P is here... I will say "I miss being pregnant and I miss my pregnant belly". But for now...that is my answer.

Belly Button In or Out? It is no longer an innie.

Looking Forward To: The weekend. We have a baby shower to go to for a good friend who is due in the beginning of June...not long before me! So it'll be nice to celebrate and spoil her little girl and be able to grub on some good food! :) And dessert. Looking forward to some cake. Mmmmmm.


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